[ 1 ] 迷途羔羊 ( 2003/7/9 上午 11:08:00 )

跟公婆關係不是很好。他們常常詛咒我的孩子，在孩子生病期間更是。所以我恨他們，心裏常想以後他們年老時是我報復的時機。心中滿腹是恨一點都不快樂，常看聖經安撫自已但有時會浮出恨意，怎麼辦？！

[ 2 ] 天藍 ( 2003/7/9 下午 10:47:00 )

我沒有經歷過這麼讓人難過的事情
自己的親骨肉被詛咒是一件相當痛苦的事情
不過...當我遇到壞人的時候
我會讓自己去想神對我的寬容
我曾經是一個怎麼樣的人
如今神原諒我洗淨我的罪，讓我成為他的兒女
再想想耶穌在我們都有罪的時候，為我們死
神的寬容和愛是廣闊高深無邊無盡的
我們原諒欺負我們的人，其實不算什麼唷！
當然這是很難做到的，因為你很生氣又很傷心
你也可以求神給你一顆寬容的心
能夠去原諒他們
就像耶穌死前說的話
原諒他們，因為他們不知道

加油！！也請大家為你禱告
這樣你的公婆也不會在詛咒你的孩子了

[ 3 ] 布拉里斯 ( 2003/7/10 下午 04:10:00 )

會問怎辦時
其實你就知道怎辦了


羅 八 26
況且我們軟弱有聖靈幫助.....

生氣時看看聖經囉

[ 4 ] Dorcus ( 2003/7/18 上午 05:14:00 )

To forgive people first then God will forgive you is very important.

"Hatred" is so terrible. You would not be happy if you live with it. Your mind will be damaged and life will become miserable. I have that experience before.

Once I worked for contruction co in Taiwan 10 years ago as an accountant. My accounting department manager, graduated from university, she was not very fond of me. At that time, I just a graduated college student and just got out of school. In my work field, I really did a excellent job. No one complain about my work ability. But she was so mean. She was trying to get rid of me, so she would talk so rude to me while only she and me in office. I didn't know how to response and just felt so angry and sad. My hatred was starting growing in my mind day by day. I hate to go to work and was very unhappy to see her. Suddenly, my life was full of bitter. I felt so terrible about my life. One day in the morning, I went to office. I was thinking why souldn't I just forgive her. Then I forgave her and then the pretty heavy stone of hatred just disappeared in my mind. You would never imagine how happy I was at that moment. It was so great. we don't judge people. But if we think deeply, we are too flesh and blood to put ourself in God's shoes at first place. We are so occupied by our own. We think something, do something which always think ourselves first. We all take advantage of God's Love. Remember when you forgive people, you will receive joy of fruit. Ask for God's help. He will give you the strengh. 

[ 5 ] JESSICA ( 2003/8/15 上午 05:02:00 )

哈利路亞!
您好 我並清楚你的背景
為何會有爺爺奶奶咒罵自己的孫子呢!
雖然我尚未結婚
可能無法來論斷此事
但我最近看一出韓劇"背叛愛情"
最近演到話不能亂說
仇不能亂報的劇情階段
其實最後會傷害自己
還有深愛的家人
(有興趣可前往八大電視的背叛愛情網頁看大綱)
講述的家庭倫理非常細膩
比台灣連續劇有營養點
總之 希望你能繼續仰望依靠神
牠 必看顧保守
GOD BLESS~